Safe Space

Chapter 24

Welcome to the 24th week of 2023!

Last Friday evening, I had the privilege of participating in an online seminar on “komplexitätsadäquaten Kollegialen Beratung” (Complexity-adapted collegial counseling). During the engaging 90-minute session, we delved into the Heidelberger integrative Prozessmodell (HiP) and explored theories of solving complex problems. Amidst the wealth of knowledge shared, one term captured my attention: “Lösungsraum” or “space of solutions.” This phrase, commonly used in social work, business, and medical contexts, reminded me of the invaluable concept of a safe space.

Exploring the Concept:
The idea of a safe space has always resonated deeply with me in my line of work. However, it was intriguing to hear it being discussed in various other fields as well. Reflecting on the seminar, I couldn’t help but recall Proverbs 1:33, which states, “But whoso hearkeneth unto me shall dwell safely.” This verse beautifully captures the essence of a safe space, emphasizing the importance of feeling secure and protected.

Understanding the Dynamics of Patterns:
The seminar shed light on the challenges associated with emergence—the phenomenon of complex patterns arising from simpler components—and the pitfalls of enslavement or subjugation. Recognizing and understanding these patterns becomes crucial when seeking effective solutions. Within the “Lösungsraum” or space of solutions, we can navigate the complexities and find clarity.

Embracing the Safe Space:
The seminar left me with numerous ideas and insights to further explore. However, today I want to focus on the significance of the “Lösungsraum” within the concept of a safe space. In our fast-paced and increasingly complex world, filled with conflicts, troubles, and sickness, the need for a safe space becomes more evident than ever. It serves as a refuge—a sanctuary where individuals can find solace amidst chaos and uncertainty. Within this safe space, individuals are given the freedom to express themselves without fear of judgment or reprisal. It nurtures an environment of trust, respect, and open communication, allowing diverse perspectives to be heard and valued. In this haven, creativity flourishes, and collaborative problem-solving becomes possible. It is a place where conflicts can be constructively resolved, and healing can occur.

Regarding Spirituality:
Considering the verse from Proverbs 1:33, “But whoso hearkeneth unto me shall dwell safely,” we are invited to seek refuge in a spiritual realm by attentively listening to divine guidance and wisdom. This safe place goes beyond the physical—it represents a state of mind and heart that brings inner peace, harmony, and a sense of protection. The spiritual safe space acts as a sanctuary where we can explore our inner selves, reflect on our life’s purpose, find forgiveness, and experience healing. It is a space where authenticity and vulnerability are embraced, where acceptance reigns without judgment or fear—ultimately, in the presence of God.

Unlocking the Door:
The key to accessing this spiritual safe space lies in hearkening unto God. It entails actively listening, attentively picking up one’s ears to receive divine guidance and wisdom.

As I reflect on this concept, I am reminded of the profound importance of the spiritual safe space. It is a haven provided from above. In the context of my spiritual journey, I enter this space with empty hands, an open heart, and ears eager to listen. The promise of God, as conveyed through the scripture of Proverbs, is to enter and dwell safely.

May your week begin with a profound sense of connection as you hearken to the voice of God and step into the comforting embrace of His presence. Wishing you a fulfilling journey this week within the safe space of spiritual nourishment and guidance.

Philemon

Overcoming Judgment

Chapter 23

Welcome to this new week, this Monday afternoon of week 23

Matthew 7:1 – “Judge not, that you be not judged.”

After spending some wonderful days in Manchester with two great friends, I was frequently reminded not to judge too quickly. What I perceived as a foreigner wasn’t necessarily an accurate reflection of what was actually happening, taking us to the verse for this week.

One verse that is frequently misunderstood is Matthew 7:1, where Jesus says, “Judge not, that you be not judged.” This verse is often used to discourage any form of judgment or discernment. However, when taken out of context, it overlooks the complete message Jesus was conveying.

When we examine the surrounding verses, we realize that Jesus was cautioning against hypocritical judgment. He emphasized the importance of introspection and self-reflection before casting judgment upon others. The intent behind this verse was to encourage humility and self-awareness, rather than promoting a blanket dismissal of discernment or accountability.

Rather than seeing this verse as a prohibition on all forms of judgment, we can interpret it as an invitation to cultivate compassion and understanding. A great approach to seeing others with empathy, and acknowledging our own imperfections and limitations. By doing so, we create an environment where forgiveness, growth, and genuine connections can flourish.

Wishing fruitful discussions this week as you uplift one another, and live out the positive and transformative message of the Bible.

Philemon

שבועות Shavuot

Good afternoon on this Pentecost Monday.
Bon après-midi en ce lundi de Pentecôte.

Pentecost is a significant time with various experiences that differ from year to year, place to place, and heart to heart.
La Pentecôte est un moment important avec des expériences variées qui diffèrent d’une année à l’autre, d’un lieu à l’autre et d’un cœur à l’autre.

Throughout all these years, God remains constant, unchanging, while we are the ones who change.
À travers toutes ces années, Dieu reste constant, immuable, tandis que c’est nous qui changeons.

Pentecost is filled with emotions, words, languages, encounters, and actions.
La Pentecôte est emplie d’émotions, de paroles, de langues, de rencontres et d’actions.

How did you personally experience it? I will send a few images and let them speak for themselves.
Comment l’as-tu personnellement vécue ? Je t’enverrai quelques images et les laisserai parler d’elles-mêmes.

Wishing you a blessed start to this new week.
Je te souhaite un excellent et béni début de semaine.

Philemon

Hacked

Chapter 21

Welcome to Week 21 of 2023!

Let no one deceive you with empty words. – Ephesians 5:6

In Ephesians, the apostle Paul addresses the believers in a countercultural manner, urging them to reject false teachings and empty philosophies prevalent in their city. Influenced by the polytheistic practices of the time, these deceptions required discernment.

“The greatest enemy of knowledge is not ignorance, it is the illusion of knowledge.” – Daniel J. Boorstin

Amidst the digital landscape, fake emails claiming you’ve been hacked can be unsettling. But before panicking, it’s important to verify before reacting.

Fraudulent emails designed to deceive and create fear must be approached with caution. Stay alert, and don’t let fear cloud your judgment.

Protect yourself from fake emails pretending you’ve been hacked. Stay informed, remain cautious, and secure your personal information.

The sentence “You’ve been hacked” can evoke worry and uncertainty, not only about digital security but also about the psychological impact on our daily lives.

What if the message “You’ve been hacked” is an invitation to give up security information, only to fall victim to hacking?

Being hacked shares parallels with other situations where we’re tricked into thinking we’re off course and in danger. Discernment becomes crucial in distinguishing between genuine threats and mere illusions. Recognizing the patterns and strategies used by hackers and those who employ “empty words” can sharpen our instincts for detecting deception.

Ephesians 5:6 reminds us to be wise and discerning, not easily deceived by empty words or false teachings. This guidance applies to both our spiritual and digital lives. By staying rooted in truth, cultivating discernment, and being aware of deceitful tactics, we can protect ourselves and align with God’s purpose for our lives.

“The true value of information lies not in its scarcity but in its accuracy.”

In conclusion, Ephesians 5:6 emphasizes the significance of discernment and caution in our encounters with messages and teachings. It calls us to seek truth, align ourselves with God’s teachings, and avoid being led astray by deceptive influences. By doing so, we can navigate life’s challenges with wisdom and integrity.

Wishing you a week free of deception and hacks.

Philemon



Motherhood

Motherhood

Chapter 20

Welcome to Week 20 of 2023!

“As a mother comforts her child, so I will comfort you; you shall be comforted in Jerusalem.” (Isaiah 66:13, ESV)

“But I have calmed and quieted myself, I am like a weaned child with its mother; like a weaned child, I am content.” – Psalm 131:2 (NIV)

“Mackenzie, I am not who you think I am. I don’t need your judgment or your evaluation. I don’t need you to analyze what I do or why I do it. I am the best way any human can relate to Papa or Sarayu (the Holy Spirit)!” – William P. Young, The Shack

Yesterday, as I was returning home from a fulfilling church meeting on a train journey, a seemingly ordinary encounter turned into a thought-provoking moment. A friendly waitress approached me and assumed I was traveling to visit my mother (needless to say, it was Mother’s Day celebrated here in Switzerland). Perhaps it was the way she asked or the sincerity in her voice, but her question struck a chord within me.

In response, I shared that I had no mother. However, instead of a sympathetic or puzzled expression, she surprised me with an immediate response: “Get yourself another!” It was a truly amusing moment, one that reminded me of the unexpected joy and humor that can be found in our everyday encounters. But beyond the laughter, her words also carried a deeper message—one that resonated with the essence of motherhood and the nurturing qualities we find in those around us.

In the book “The Shack” by William P. Young, there is a beautiful depiction of God assuming the form of a divine mother. The author explores the concept of God’s love and care being comparable to a mother’s nurturing presence. This portrayal exemplifies the boundless compassion, understanding, and unconditional love that we often associate with mothers.

Motherhood transcends biological ties. While our earthly mothers play a vital role in our lives, the divine qualities of motherhood can manifest through various relationships—even divine ones. So, let us not limit the concept of motherhood to biology alone. Instead, let’s open our hearts and recognize the divine presence of maternal love in the world around us. By doing so, we broaden our perspective and create space for the nurturing qualities of God, as a divine mother, to touch our lives in diverse ways.

And, just as the cheerful waitress suggested, let us find opportunities to “get ourselves another” mother, ultimately, understanding God as a mother allows us to experience the depth and breadth of divine love and find comfort and solace in the presence of the divine.

Wishing you a week filled with newfound appreciation for the divine presence of motherhood in all its beautiful forms.

Philemon

Heart impulses; Connecting with the Divine

Chapter 19

Welcome to week 19 of 2023.

This weekend, I read an interesting article about the heart.

One question posed to Professor Sian Harding of the Faculty of Medicine, National Heart & Lung Institute was as follows:

Can the heart generate emotions?
“This happens, for example, when we perceive danger and our pulse accelerates. In the heart, there is a kind of mini-brain, a nerve node that informs our brain that we are afraid. This, in turn, enables our brain to react to the danger and, for example, trigger a flight response. In laboratory experiments, people were played recordings of a very rapidly beating heart. When they were told they were listening to their own heart, they became fearful or even panicked.”

The verse in Ezekiel 36:26 takes on a whole new meaning:
“I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh.”

God promises to give His people a new heart and put a new spirit within them. This verse speaks of a spiritual transformation that God initiates within individuals. The heart, often now explained as a “mini-brain” or culturally understood as the center of emotions, desires, and decision-making, is depicted metaphorically as being made of stone, symbolizing a hardened and unresponsive state. The promise involves a transformation, removing the hardness, coldness, and resistance toward God and replacing it with a heart of flesh, signifying a soft, responsive, and receptive heart.

Regarding the report, S. Harding writes:
“The heart cells have electrical connections for signal transmission and mechanical connections for force. There are neurons in the heart. However, the heart can actually be removed from the body, the blood vessels can be filled with a saline solution, and the heart continues to beat – spontaneously and without any intervention. In the body, the autonomic nervous system regulates whether the heart should beat faster or slower, an unconscious process.”

The promise in Ezekiel 36:26 speaks of a divine intervention that goes beyond the physical aspects of the heart. It signifies a profound connection between the “heart of man” and the “heart of God.” Just as the physical impulses of the heart synchronize the body, this spiritual transformation aligns us with the divine, making us partakers of His nature and purposes.

Through this promise, God offers a new spiritual body, a transformed being that is in harmony with Him. It implies a profound shift from a self-centered existence to one that is connected with the divine, where our desires, affections, and actions are in sync with His will.

This spiritual transformation enables us to experience a relationship in alignment with God. It is an invitation to transcend our limited human nature and embrace a new identity as children of God, empowered by His Spirit. In essence, the promise in Ezekiel 36:26 calls us to a spiritual metamorphosis, where we are no longer solely focused on ourselves but are transformed to reflect the character and heart of God, living in intimate communion with Him.

Wishing you a blessed connection to the impulse and heart of God this week.

Philemon

Lessons from Unwelcome Guests

Chapter 18

Welcome to the week 18 of 2023

Amidst the green blades of grass so fair,
In the lawn where we take care,
Lies a sight of sorrow and woe,
Weeds, they sprout and grow and show.

In Matthew, a parable was told,
Of good seeds sowed in fields of gold,
Yet amongst the crops, weeds did appear,
A gardener’s fear, a problem severe.

But what if we look beyond the tale,
And see the beauty amidst the wail,
Of these plants that grow without a care,
Roots that reach, branches that flare.

Undesirable, invasive, they say,
Weeds that grow and spread each day,
But do we see the lessons they impart,
In the struggles of their resilient heart.

For they fight to survive and stand tall,
Amidst the chaos and the brawl,
A reminder to persevere and strive,
To grow strong and fight to stay alive.

Weeds may be despised and shunned,
But they’re the pioneers of barren ground,
Their roots dig deep, their will is strong,
Growing where others can’t belong.

So let us not dismiss these unwelcome guests,
For they may have more to teach than we may guess,
In their struggle for life and space,
They show us how to survive and thrive in any place.

Philemon

Disenchantment

Disenchantment

Chapter 17

Welcome to the 17th week of 2023.

This week I was reading in the book “How (Not) to Be Secular: Reading Charles Taylor,” author James K.A. Smith is describing the concept of disenchantment regarding the tensions or conflicting forces that people experience in our modern secular age.

(Disclaimer: This blog post almost turned into a book summary, so it’s quite lengthy. Please bear with me … “smile”. A nicer way to read this text is directly on my blog – warapunga.ch)

The Bible is full of mysticism, yet how do we read this in a disenchanted society? I know many of the faithful readers of my blog, you are not in an disenchanted world and immediately read the Bible with a very interconnected and mystic view of texts in the Bible. Yet many of us struggle with the texts with a disenchanted world view also due to the Reformation through its rejection of the sacraments, all but two: baptism and the Lord’s Supper. This rejection of the sacraments (Confirmation, Penance, Anointing of the sick, Holy Orders and Marriage) meant that the reformers placed less emphasis on ritual and more on the individual’s relationship with God. This led to a more personal and individualised approach to faith, which helped to promote a less enchanted and more rational worldview.

Two examples of mystical texts;

Moses and the burning bush; This supernatural encounter demonstrates the mystical power of God to communicate with humans in extraordinary ways.

Or the transfiguration, Jesus takes three of his disciples up a high mountain, where he is transfigured before them. Jesus’ face shines like the sun, and his clothing becomes dazzling white. Moses and Elijah also appear with Jesus, representing the Law and the Prophets. This mystical experience reveals Jesus’ divine nature to his disciples and offers a glimpse of the glory of God.

“While the world is disenchanted for us, we nonetheless also experience a sense of loss and malaise in the wake of such disenchantment.”

The quote suggests that many individuals find themselves pulled between two opposing forces – on one side is the force of disenchantment, or the view that the world is purely material and without any mystical or supernatural elements. However, on the other side, many people also feel a sense of significance and transcendent meaning, even if they believe that such meaning has been lost or is no longer attainable.

Disenchantment refers to the idea of stripping away the mystery, magic, and supernatural elements from the world, thereby reducing it to a purely material and scientific one. The concept was developed and argued that a process of rationalisation was taking place across Western society, leading to the loss of traditional beliefs and values. In a disenchanted world, there are no longer any mystical or spiritual powers that govern the universe, and everything can be explained by scientific or naturalistic means.

Disenchantment has been associated with the rise of secularism and the decline of religion in modern society. The idea suggests that the world has become less miraculous and more mundane, with technology and science replacing supernatural beliefs and practices. Some people view disenchantment as a positive development, as it encourages people to rely on reason and empirical evidence rather than superstition and religious dogma. However, others view it as a negative phenomenon that leads to a loss of meaning, purpose, and spiritual fulfilment, resulting in a sense of emptiness.

In other words, individuals might feel the weight of the secular worldview that dominates our society and the scientific/naturalistic explanations that come with it, yet they also yearn for a sense of meaning and significance beyond their material existence. This sense of significance can manifest in different forms based on personal belief systems. These opposing forces – immanence and transcendence – can create pressures in people’s lives as they navigate the complexities of our modern world.

Both ideas suggest that even in the face of conflict or loss, unity and connectedness remain essential to understanding one’s place in the world. Thus, the verse and the quote remind us that despite the challenges and conflicts of our modern secular age, we can still find hope and meaning by recognising our inherent unity as part of a larger whole.

Disenchantment and interconnectedness are closely related, as disenchantment refers to the loss of the mystical or supernatural , while interconnectedness implies a recognition of the complex and interconnected nature of the world.

Smith argues that the secular age presents opportunities for individuals to reimagine faith and spirituality, to find new ways of expressing and living out their beliefs that are relevant and meaningful in the context of contemporary society.

Therefore, while disenchantment and interconnectedness may appear to be opposing forces, faith and spirituality provide a way to reconcile these two perspectives.

Recognising one’s interconnectedness with the world, society, and the Divine can help us feel a sense of belonging to something greater than ourselves. This will offer a sense of purpose and meaning, even in a disenchanted world, by acknowledging and valuing the inherent interconnectedness present in all that exists.

Faith and spirituality provide a framework for us to make sense of the world and our place in it, offering a way to reconcile the tension between isolation and interconnectedness in the face of disenchantment.

As one possible solution to this tension a wonderful term is used. Porosity!
Porosity refers to the degree to which a substance or material is porous or has pores, which are small holes or openings that allow liquids, gases, or other substances to pass through.

In a spiritual sense the term “porous” is used to describe the pre-modern or enchanted worldview in which spiritual and material realms are not separated, and there is a continual exchange between them. The porous self is fully open to influences from the spiritual world and is receptive to supernatural experiences. It is characterised by a sense of interconnectedness between the divine and the natural world, and between individuals and their communities.

Smith argues that this porous understanding of the self has often been replaced by a secular view that sees the self as autonomous and separate from external influences. This represents a buffered or insulated self that is cut off from the divine and the supernatural.

A porous spirituality is one without the boundaries between the sacred and the secular and one’s spiritual life will integrate with all aspects of life. Porous spirituality is open, and receptive. A porous spirituality acknowledges that spiritual experiences and divine revelations can happen anywhere, and at any time. It is receptive to the spontaneous and unexplained, and it values the interconnectedness and oneness of all things. It is not limited by specific beliefs or religious doctrines, but rather it is characterised by wonder and mystery of the relationship to our Creator.

Porousness and disenchantment are not opposites, they do represent different ways of relating spiritual or mystical experiences. Porousness emphasises openness, connection, and vulnerability, while disenchantment emphasises scepticism, rationality, and detachment.

I’ll conclude with Psalm 42:1-2: “As the deer pants for streams of water, so my soul pants for you, my God. My soul thirsts for God, for the living God. When can I go and meet with God?” Here, it expresses a deep longing for God and a desire to be in God’s presence. This passage reflects a sense of porousness, or openness to the divine, seeking to connect with God and to be filled with God’s presence.

I hope that you are able to experience this sense of porousness as you connect with God this week.

Philemon 



I lift up my eyes to the mountains

Good Monday morning!

Welcome to the 16th week of 2023.

This morning I see …. mountains!

For instance, the Schreckhorn, towering at 4078m and known for its challenging 14-hour climb.

Mountains hold significant symbolism in the Bible, often representing God’s presence, strength, and stability. They are used as powerful metaphors to convey spiritual truths and concepts, highlighting the enduring and unchanging nature of God.

Psalm 121:1-2 reminds us, “I lift up my eyes to the mountains—where does my help come from? My help comes from the Lord, the Maker of heaven and earth.” Mountains showcase strength, stability, and permanence, reflecting God’s attributes.

Isaiah 40:4 speaks of mountains being leveled, indicating that obstacles can be overcome through God’s intervention.

Matthew 17:20 presents the metaphor of faith moving mountains, illustrating the power of faith to conquer seemingly insurmountable challenges.

Matthew 28:16 references the mountain where Jesus instructed His disciples to go, signifying an encounter with God.

Exodus 19:3-6 portrays Moses ascending the mountain to encounter God, as a place where God reveals Himself to people.

Psalm 125:1 compares those who trust in the Lord to Mount Zion, which cannot be shaken but endures forever, showcasing God’s unchanging and steadfast nature.

As I gaze upon the majestic mountains before me, I am filled with awe and deep contemplation of the greatness of the Almighty God.

May your week be marked by an encounter with the Almighty God.

blessings
Philemon

Rivers of Justice

Good Monday morning!

Welcome to the 15th week of 2023.

Amos 5:24 says, “But let justice roll on like a river, righteousness like a never-failing stream!”

Some similar verses from the Bible:

Micah 6:8 – “He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.”

Isaiah 1:17 – “Learn to do right; seek justice. Defend the oppressed. Take up the cause of the fatherless; plead the case of the widow.”

Proverbs 21:3 – “To do what is right and just is more acceptable to the Lord than sacrifice.”

Psalm 33:5 – “The Lord loves righteousness and justice; the earth is full of his unfailing love.”

Isaiah 56:1 – “This is what the Lord says: ‘Maintain justice and do what is right, for my salvation is close at hand and my righteousness will soon be revealed.'”

Let’s put all these verses in the “Bible poem blender” … here we go!

Rivers of Justice: A Monday Morning Bible Poem.

Let justice roll on like a river,
Righteousness like a never-failing stream.
For this is what the Lord requires of us,
To act justly and to love mercy, is God’s central theme.

Learn to do what’s right and just,
Seek justice with unwavering trust.
Defend the oppressed and care for the weak,
Take up the cause of those in need, and let them speak.

To do what’s right and just, the Lord demands,
More pleasing to Him than compromise’s strands.
He loves righteousness and justice’s ways,
Unfailing love filling the earth’s vast array.

Let us emphasize His divine call,
Justice rolling like rivers, never to stall.
Righteousness flowing, a never-failing stream,
His glory, like the sun, on us will beam.

May we seek justice and love mercy too,
Walking humbly with Him, in all we pursue.
For His Kingdom is near, let us prepare,
To live with Him, in a world beyond compare.
Let us uphold these values with all our might,
For His righteousness will soon be revealed, bright.

Let’s kick off this week with a roll of justice like a river!

Philemon